善有善报,恶有恶报。
不是不报,时候未到。
时候一到,立即全报。
时候一到,立即全报。
人恶人怕天不怕,人善人欺天不欺。
善恶到头终有报,只争来早与来迟。
Minnesota Judge Has 200 Blunt Words for Divorcing Parents
By Judge Michael Haas, 2001 "Your children have come into this world because of the two of you. Perhaps you two made lousy choices as to whom you decided to be the other parent. If so, that is your problem and your fault. No matter what you think of the other party-or what your family thinks of the other party-these children are one-half of each of you. Remember that, because every time you tell your child what an "idiot" his father is, or what a "fool" his mother is, or how bad the absent parent is, or what terrible things that person has done, you are telling the child half of him is bad. That is an unforgivable thing to do to a child. That is not love. That is possession. If you do that to your children, you will destroy them as surely as if you had cut them into pieces, because that is what you are doing to their emotions. I sincerely hope that you do not do that to your children. Think more about your children and less about yourselves, and make your a selfless kind of love, not foolish or selfish, or your children will suffer. |